Forced Masturbation

Forced masturbation is a topic very dear to my heart. I would say that a key and core value of my style of Domination is forced masturbation.  You cannot be my slave if you don't like to masturbate...a lot. You also have to like cumming a lot.

 (Funny side story: I had a girl that I dated briefly who would cum once and then want to roll over and fall asleep like some guys do.  If she came...she HAD to sleep. Like right then.  I was like, really?? Just one orgasm from you? Omg...this is so not going to work out. Though...I did end up making her cum a bunch of times just to be sure. Same thing every time. She could do ok with orgasm denial but I really really love to see a girl cumming...so grrrrrrr.)


As a slave of mine, you will HAVE to spend considerable time every day touching yourself. The reason for this is twofold. First, scientific studies have shown that the more time you spend thinking about sex and engaging in sexual activity, the more you desire it. It's addictive. And I knowingly exploit this to turn you into the biggest slut that I can imagine (which is far sluttier than you can imagine, I assure you.)  Secondly, I fucking think girls masturbating is so damn sexy! It's fucking hot! And what is even hotter than a girl touching herself? (A girl using a sybian?! No! Well, yes but...) A girl cumming!

I have to admit, I'm addicted to watching girls cum. I love feeling them next to me...cumming hard.  And I want to be sure they do that lots and lots for my entertainment. But even when I am not around, I love to know that my girl is touching herself and cumming for me.

Now I have to warn you, I can be extremely demanding of my slaves...and when I say can...I mean: I am.  I am offended by the idea of a girl cumming just 5 times in a single day. That is WAY too little.   A slave should cum at the bare minimum, 20 times a day but that seems low to me. (Keep in mind this is just masturbation. Her quota of cums is unaffected by her orgasming with other people sucking on her pussy or me fucking her ass while she uses a vibrator on her clit. Note: while she is technically masturbating with a vibrator, the fact that I'm fucking her ass trumps that and it counts as ass fucking.

And I do love forcing a girl to masturbate over and over and over while I watch her. Not letting her stop. Having a flogger or riding crop ready to keep her focused and on task. I make her watch porn as she touches herself as I demand that she keep going and give the orgasms to me. That's key: she is no longer cumming for herself but each and every orgasm is for me. So she cannot stop because she's satisfied. She can only stop when I am satisfied.  And the current record for my slave Ashlie is 150 orgasms in a day (it was a lot of work...but well worth the effort ;)  )

MASTURBATORY TOOLS

Hitachi

But don't worry, ample tools shall be provided to assist you on your quest. for example, ample access too Hitachi Magic Wands will be provided.  Don't know the Magic Wand? It's awesome. I should do a post on just that. But for now: it's one of the best vibrators on the market though it tends to work just on the clit as it has a ball shaped tip.

The Sybian the finest sex toy ever made. Sadly, I don't own one of these...yet. Soon. It will be mine, oh yes, it be mine.

Standard vibes and dildos shall also be provided as variety is the spice of life.

Butt plugs: I can't stress the importance of this one enough. Girls should be forced to masturbate at least some times with butt plugs up their ass. Why? Because it links the sensation of butt play to orgasm.


PORN

Girls should use porn so I can see what they are thinking about and how their thoughts are focused.  Additionally, I can use the visual cues from porn to direct their thoughts, demand orgasms at certain key points or when I think a photo is particularly pretty.  And it's also fun to see more than one girl touching herself to the same movie or photo.  And in my world, you will get bonus points and rewards for being addicted to porn.

A slave will become thoroughly addicted to cumming for me -- so much so that one of the worst punishments I can impose is not allowing her to cum at all for a single day. ( I'm sure Ashlie is panicking just reading that! lol.) Well, with my recently thought out and published slut's fundamental rights...this would technically break that code so perhaps I would demand that she cum super fast -- and just once. But only if she was a particularly nasty bitch. I prefer punishments that involve me hitting as I'm an evil bastard who gets off on inflicting pain as well as pleasure.

A slave will learn that she should cum many many times a day and spend a reasonable part of every day
practicing the slut arts. But that said, I also recognize that some girls just haven't learned how to cum that much. If this is you, don't worry. I will take this into account. If it takes you one hour of focused masturbation to cum once...I can hardly demand 20 orgasm a day as you won't be able to get by on 4 hours of sleep a day.   Instead, I will work with you to ensure that you are practicing a lot, learning you body and cumming as much as you can.  But expect to be spending a quantifiable amount of time every day masturbating.

The good news is: cumming is a learned experience.  The more you practice, the easier it is for you to spot how the orgasm is building and the easier it is for you to cum.   More practice means it gets easier and easier. Soon, cumming 20 times a day will be easy for you and you will look forward to the days I demand many more.

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Milking Slaves

This post is on milking slaves. Or at least what I call milking: forcing a slave to cum so that she squirts into a container so that she is creating tasty orgasm-based beverages for me.  I am not talking about training a slave so that her breasts lactate and produce milk for me...I wouldn't want to do this mostly due to the unwanted side effect of breasts getting bigger when they lactate.  It is also not to be confused with any form of milk enema -- as those are an entirely different breed of milk maid.  No, milking slaves is making them cum for the express purpose of providing me with drinks.

Like masturbating and cumming, being milked get much easier over time. Initially it may be hard for a slut to squirt as she is completely unaccustomed to it and hasn't learned how her body does it.  There is a post here on squirting and since this is essentially identical, I refer you to that post.

But the milking aspect differs from squirting in the following ways:  A slut who is milked is forced to produce a certain volume of squirt juices each and every day. This squirted cum is not just sprayed over the room but gathered for consumption by her Master.  An example of this could be that I know I am getting home from work at 5pm. So when I walk through the door, I want to have the slave hand me a martini glass of her still warm squirt juices so that I may have a nice relaxing beverage after a long day's work.

It's the ritualized aspect that  is key here: she should have to do this regularly to get good at it.  Of course, as I've mentioned elsewhere... squirt juices from a girl cumming contains her energy at the moment of orgasm. And since I am highly sensitive to energy...drinking a glass of her cum will usually make me cum after a few minutes. For this reason, you will gather way I enjoy milking so much.

Now even better than the squirted cum from one slave is the squirted cum of several slaves all mixed together (besides, more slaves can make more of this tasty beverage!)  And there just plain is no reason why they shouldn't help each other squirt.

The thing I like most about milking slaves is it is quantifiable: you can demand a certain amount of milk to be produced from your sluts and then I can measure it to see if punishments need to be issued. A good amount to demand is 500ml per slave per day.

And practice makes perfect! The more she squirts the easier it is for her to squirt. In fact, she may lose the ability not to squirt and will frequently soak the bed whether  you like it or not (I ALWAYS like it!)

Of course, there is also a certain amount of satisfaction from extracting the squirt juices myself...and watching them squirt! It's also fun to train her and watch her squirt from large objects inserted in her such as massive dildoes and smooth baseball bats of various diameters. So sexy...and then watch her squirt as you pull it out...priceless!

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Slave Application Form

This is the slave application form that prospective slaves should fill out if they are interested in becoming a slave of mine and coming to the Home for Wayward Sluts (what one slave called the Slut Pound or the Slutphanage --made me laugh.)

A slut should answer all the questions in the below spreadsheet.  This gives a very clear idea of how much of a slut she is, how much experience she has, what turns her on, what she is willing to do and what her hard limits are. And I do enjoy seeing the depth of your depravity too.

The application is long. Really long in fact. And the girl should be masturbating and ideally have a vibrator inside of her the entire time she is filling out the application. This will take some time and several sessions for her to complete.  But part of the point is to show that you are serious about the application and developing a relationship and getting to know you.

So aside from proving you are serious about joining us (just completing all 7 tabs of the application is a task, I assure you), this application will show me if you have interests that are common with me and if you are perverted enough to join.  Someone that has read 50 Shades of Grey and is now playing with the idea -- would likely be crushed underfoot by me. I need truly depraved perverts. Also note that some questions reflect the variety of sexual experience that some slaves have had including growing up in abusive conditions. This does happen and my understanding the nature of the abuse gives me valuable insight into the mind of such a slut and her life experience.  If you cannot deal with all perverted sexual behaviors, do not attempt to take this test --you are not ready.

It's a Google doc so you may need to create a gmail account for yourself in order to open the application. Just open it and then you may need to save it as your own document before you can modify it.  Then send me a copy of the completed form and I will get back to you.

The Steps are:
1) Create a Gmail Account
2) Go to Google Docs (aka Google Drive) and make sure you can create documents
3) Open the link below.
4) Goto to File --> Make a Copy and create a new application just for you.
5) Fill out all the yellow fields in all available tabs
6) Click "Share" in the upper right and share it with me while sending me a note saying you would like to apply. Send to (Balmmaker 'squiggly A' gmail 'sentence ender' com


If the application is acceptable,  then and only then will we proceed to your sending photos -- as I'm far more interested in your level of kink, your experience and your willingness to serve than your physical state. And if I see your photo and think you're super cute and hot...well, I can't have my opinion favorably swayed by looks as life as a slave is not for everyone.

application WILL also be used as a basis for the slave contract that you will eventually sign.  The contract states in no uncertain terms what you are agreeing to and can also be used to denote hard limits that I will respect. For example, if you state that being called names and humiliated is a devastating to you and would crush you...then this is a place to put it so I know!  I will never ever intentionally break a hard limit for you.  I respect that slaves are different and need to be treated differently to be happy.   Oh, and knowing the things that turn you on the most...also very useful information for me.  (Note: Since I have a fetish for seeing girls get off and orgasm...if when I know the things that turn you on like mad, I am going to force you to do those

things...a lot. Yes, you've been warned.)

Remember, you MUST be masturbating the whole time you fill this out! Pick the format that best suits you:
SLAVE APPLICATION IN GOOGLE DOCS (BEST)

SLAVE APPLICATION IN EXCEL

SLAVE APPLICATION IN OPEN OFFICE 
NOTE: Download Open Office here (free spreadsheet and word processor)

If you have questions about what some of the items are...leave a comment and I'll explain.

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10 Fundamental Slut Rights

These are the fundamental rights I give unconditionally to each and every slave of mine. A note on the word slut: slut is a very very good in my book. The most wonderful and desirable kind of girl in the world is a slut. They are the best and I wish more girls were good sluts. Being a slut should be a title a slave wears with pride. A slut is a girl who loves a lot, adores pleasure and loves to give pleasure too. What's not to love? These rights are irrevocable and your core rights that will never be removed:

10 Fundamental Rights of a Slut

1. Must be allowed at least one orgasm per day if wanted. She may negotiate the use of some forced chastity play or orgasm denial but this is a short term negotiation only and she may only endure such behaviors with her consent. She has a fundamental right to at least one orgasm per day, no matter what.   

2. Must be allowed to grind against her Master and behave with sneaky public sexuality. This right is to ensure that the slut never loses track of her primary purpose as a sexual being. But keep in mind that public restaurant patrons have not consented to public sexuality and so their right will also be respected.  She also has the right to attend some parties and social gatherings attended by people of the BDSM community for social interaction and, within these social gatherings behave as slutty as she desires with her Master.

3. Must be allowed to eat a lolly and in act in other ways as a sexualised little girl (see Ageplay) without you growling.  The Master wants her to be a happy little girl and never worry about too many grown up things and instead think of only horny girl games.  

4. Must be allowed to demand sex, even if Master is in the middle of doing something. Asking for sex will always be respected and never result in growling or chastisement. Sex is fundamental to a slut's well being and she will always be encouraged to be sexual at all times.

5. Must be allowed to bend over in that way to get that thing that we just dropped and or show off her body in tempting ways with the knowledge that she is implicitly asking to be used sexually. Additionally, she must be allowed to dress in skimpy, slutty, and far-too-revealing clothing at all times to facilitate the above mentioned bending over.  The slut will always have the right to dress like a slut. 

6. Must be allowed to be sexual with any of the other slaves.  Master's slaves are part of her family and she has the right to ask for sex from any of the other slaves. This right allows the slut to promote household harmony though mutual orgasm.

7. Must be allowed to join in unless she has been specifically tasked. A slut who is otherwise unengaged and without orders to the contrary, shall be allowed to join in to any sexual activity that her Master is engaged in. For clarity, if the Master is fucking one slave's ass and the slut hears this and wishes to assist, then she has the right to join in and help out --even without specific orders from her Master. This is a right designed to encourage inclusion and not have the slut feel ignored nor that she is intruding: she is simply exercising one of her fundamental rights. 

8. Must be allowed to send Master dirty pictures and messages even if he is at work. The slut is full of unbridled desires and needs the right to communicate her dirty thoughts and activities to her Master even while he is out earning money for more sex toys and slut clothing. All communications will be through private means however (ie. cell phone) and not through company email and communication lines that may result in the expulsion of the Master from his wage earning activities. 

9. Must be allowed to own as much porn as she desire. The slave slut is owned and property and is not allowed to have any possessions of her own with the exception of pornography. A slut IS allow to own as much porn as she desires. Specifically, this includes but is not limited to legal porn in the formats of books, magazines, videos, DVDs, movie files, photos and images of sexy girls from the internet.

10. Must be allowed to watch and/or use porn during any and all sexual activities. The slut has very little control over her life and therefore shall be allowed to watch whatever porn she chooses during any sexual encounter or while masturbating. She will not be denied the right to touch herself while watching porn.    

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Why you should hire kinky people

In strict contrast to vanilla types in the workforce, kinky people consider sexual harassment to be a benefit of employment. In fact they get a bit grumpy if they go too long without being harassed and yet work better and more efficiently with just a little ass smacking.  (You can even consider a private contract that allows for and invites such behaviors ..just to protect each party from the BS of the vanilla law system.) 

Kinky folks maintain a sense of humor and tend not to take things too seriously. Often these things are not funny to any sane, rational, normal person, but your kinky staff will giggle and snicker nonetheless. 

Kinky folks know what REAL sexual harassment is and the will boldly stand up to it and call "red" because there is no point in not having fun and rather than panic and cry -- they know they have certain rights and you have to respect their wishes as an individual.  

One of the best reasons for hiring kinky people is: you can not only threaten to hit them -- you can actually hit them! Even better: they won't sue your ass and they will even enjoy it.

Of course, a lot of kinky people are really creative and smart.  They spend a lot of time and energy inventing new toys with which to be kinky and then masturbating, fucking and using said toys (which I will grant you, greatly decreases their profitability as employees.) However, if you can harness this creativity (think pony play): they can be valuable, highly productive workers.

Kinky people have a deeper understanding of emotional and mental states. They will express this understanding by pegging exactly where you are in your menstrual cycle based on what abnormal psychiatric behaviors you are exhibiting and do things like check in with you to see how you are doing throughout the scene (aka work.)

Kinky people live in a culture that values open, honest, communication. They will give serious consideration to your words and will weigh your feedback that they are being a shit and make efforts to change these behaviors. However, they will also not hesitate to tell you when you are being an asshat. Communication runs both ways.

Kinky people understand the difference between public and private behavior and they usually have strong taboo on 'outing'. This means that you can often develop actual friendships with them outside of work and trust that they will not use personal knowledge against you at work nor will they flash their boobs to an important client just to show off their nipple clamps. 

For Kinky folks, putting time and effort into a really good prank is a sign of affection. As sadists and masochists, fucking with someone is what they do to people they love. A good way to know a kinky person hates you is they just ignore you. When you come in to find your office door blocked by an avalanche of popcorn as you open the door -- meaning you have to spend 10 minutes cleaning up before you can work (this actually happened...but the author officially denies all responsibility for said, "Popcorning" but does point out the possible cause being the 5 minute tirade inflicted previously by the 'victim' on the horrors and negative health effects of popcorn.)  Regardless...if they are messing with you...it's a good way to know that they really love you.

When you're really frustrated because it's been a week since you last got freaky in your special way, you can actually tell them...in detail...repeatedly...and they will sympathize. They may even be a little turned on while they laugh at you. 

And finally, you should hire kinky people because casual Fridays! Instead of suffering through co-workers wearing ill fitting jeans, imagine a workplace where your co-worker looks like this:

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Concept of the Collar

The concept of a collar conjures up a multitude of connotations for Dominant (Master) and submissive (slave). These impressions range from abject rejection of a device that suggests ownership, humiliation, and control to wistful longing for this honor as the pinnacle of intimacy and bonding in a BDSM relationship.

From a pragmatic perspective, a collar is a useful aide. It allows me to control and direct a girl with a simple hook of my finger in the ring. It also provides an attachment point for a leash or lead if I wish to have my woman crawl or follow. It can be used creatively to loop a nipple chain and keep a woman in the correct posture, and it is an effective hitching point when immobilizing a woman on a spanking bench, table, corner, closet, cage, or other apparatus.

A collar becomes much more when I move from simple pleasures of the flesh to the erotic expanse of the mind. When a woman comes to me, desperately needing to cast off the responsibilities and stresses of her day and fall into the blissful space we occupy, I use ritual and protocol to hasten and enhance her descent. In this context, a collar can be her mental portal to the fringe of darkness.

Indeed. When she strips, she casts off the trappings of the vanilla world. As she kneels before me, she descends into a submissive posture. I strap on her leather cuffs and allow her to feel the transition of control from strong, independent woman to eager, hungry submissive. Yet, it takes my collar around her neck to bring her to her place under me - to know she no longer needs to make decisions or lead. She need only to do - and do to the best of her ability.

A collar can also mean so much more when used as a symbolic device to define the purest essence a BDSM relationship. I am referring to the act of “collaring” a submissive. And I respect that opinions and protocols abound on the significance and protocol of “collaring” and I'm going to talk specifically about what it means to me. 

I see this in a fairly straightforward manner. A woman attracts me with her energy, personality, passions in life, perversions,  appearance, and willingness to submit only to me and submit with her entire soul.  She endears herself to me by demonstrating sincerity, eagerness/hunger to serve, loyalty, respect, sensuality, and passion. She becomes part of me if our union transcends into intense feelings that cannot be easily described with words.

 If a woman is right for me, I feel a connection that pervades body, mind, heart, and soul. I experience joy, relaxation, and bliss with her at my side or under me. This compels me to take her as mine, fully and completely, and to inspire her to be her best in all she attempts in her life. It motivates me to be the best I can be as her Dominant, and it empowers me to journey froward with her as far as the path might take us into the darkness of our pleasures.

This is when I “collar” a woman. There is no way to predict how or when this moment comes. I will know - I will act - and I will explain what MY collar signifies around her neck.  But there is a huge difference from me using a collar playing with a sub, and collaring a girl -- making her my property and signifying a very deep and long lasting relationship.

I want my women to know this is no “ordinary” BDSM relationship - and a true collaring is something take as seriously as a wedding ring...no, more so.  So her collar is no “ordinary” collar. It should be 100% waterproof as it is never, ever meant to be taken off. Indeed, if my Ashlie is to pass away, she will go wearing her collar. Obviously, I would never, ever consider collaring a girl I did not care deeply for. Love is a wonderful thing when expressed through BDSM. 

A collar is the link between us. A sub will feel the energy it holds, and she will revel in her bond with me. It is also something that links her to her slave sisters. Reminding her that she is equal with them. That they are in this together.

All collars I select must be able to be worn in public. So I like those that have a look and feminine feel to them that remind one of a necklace.  Of course, rings, bracelets, and anklet may also be added to the set...but they must be very strong -- stainless steel, titanium or some other rustproof, durable and strong metal.

Yet the form is not nearly as important as the symbolism and the meaning. It will allow her to see and feel me wherever she goes. And it reminds her that she is, and will always be, my slave, my slut, and my property. 

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Video Games

If you are to be a full time, 24/7 slave of mine, then it would be a goodness if you really like to play video games and games in general.  Why? Because I'm a gamer and I might need you to level my toons, farm herbs or cultivate skills! Ha ha.  Honestly, you`ll also have to enjoy playing boardgames because I`m a geek at heart and have always loved playing games.  But for now I`ll focus on video games.

Part of me enjoys knowing exactly what my little pets are doing. And them playing games, playing with themselves and playing with each other...are are very good things.  And what is hotter than a gamer girl? Nothing. So it's a must.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_eJmYKN_1QE

I work hard to provide for my pets and the more play and leisure they can enjoy, the better I feel about myself.  Besides, I have the added benefit of having joyful, happy slaves in my life. <3

Also, as any Master who has 24/7 slaves knows, it can be really difficult to keep the slaves occupied at all times.  So things like jobs, school, cooking courses, exercise and this case video games all provide activities that can have observable/measurable results while making sure the slaves are happy and fulfilled.

Of course, how video game use is administered varies as I see fit and is subject to change from day to day. But I will provide some examples and also describe how to make this work.

Reward centers:
Video games stimulate the same reward centers in the brain as narcotic drugs. So video games are highly addictive. Which I see as a good thing. That means they are also highly enjoyable -- it's something a good little s
lave slut will WANT to do and be motivated to do.  She will also feel a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment -- leading her to a sense of satisfaction in her life.

Of course, some people feel as sense of distress from video games because they feel like they SHOULD BE doing other things that are more 'important' with their lives. They may be unemployed and wasting time playing games instead of figuring out how to get a job.  This conflict between what they tell themselves they should be doing and what they actually do can lead to a profound sense of dis-empowerment which leads to depression. Luckily, this is most definitely NOT the case for slaves who are ordered to play. They are then obeying their Master and can even look at it as a very pleasant form of work.

Slaves should not have to worry about where their next paycheck is coming from. All those worries and difficulties stand firmly on their Master's shoulders. And if you're lucky enough to have a Master with their shit together -- then slaves are free to enjoy all that reward center brain stimulation.

Exercise:
This one is one of the most powerful tips I can provide for making a slave fit.  What are video game players known as? Couch potatoes. Well, I'm not into fucking a slovenly potato. Far from it. So how does one ensure that a slave stays fit?  With the devious combination of video games and a treadmill.

Make it so the slave must be walking or running on a treadmill the whole time she is playing and I guarantee her physical fitness will go through the roof! Why? Video games completely distract the mind while playing so she'll barely notice she's exercising but will be instead immersed in the game. And the human body is an incredibly ability to adapt to the demands placed on it -- so soon long walks on a treadmill or rides on a stationary bike will become just part of the daily games.



Examples:
For one slave, Special K, I currently wish to have her play games while she has vibrators in both her pussy and ass. She has to play but is NOT allowed to cum at all. Every hour (using a timer), she must take a break, look at pretty girls and get as close as possible to cumming without going over the edge. After she reaches this edge, she may continue playing...getting hornier and hornier throughout the day. (But don't worry, she will fulfill her daily quota of orgasms for me...just not while playing ;)  )

The other slave, Ashlie, needs to take frequent breaks to cum over and over for me.

Performance Awards:
In addition, cumming rewards may be given for specific in game achievements. Simply look at the game and figure out what the main goals are and what the hardest elements are to achieve...then attach rewarding tasks to them.

An example could be the game, Perfect World, that they both play.  I have devised the following list of cumming requirements-- the number of times they have to cum as a reward for leveling.  Keep in mind that each time they level, they are to get out of squad as soon as possible and switch to looking at porn pictures of girls while they come. They will cum according to the chart below:

PERFECT WORLD LEVEL AWARDS
Level 1-10            Masturbate for 1 minute without cumming
Level 11-20          Cum 1 time
Level 21-29          Cum 2 times
Level 30-39          Cum 3 times
Level 40-49          Cum 4 times
Level 50-59          Cum 5 times
Level 60-69          Cum 6 times
Level 70-78          Cum 7 times
Level 79                Cum 7 times + 9 more with butt plug in for opening Lvl79 skills.
Level 80-88          Cum 8 times
Level 89                Cum 8 times + 9 more with butt plug in for opening Lvl89 skills.
Level 90-91          Cum 9 times
Level 92                Cum 9 times + 20 more with butt plug in for opening Lvl92 skills.
Level 93-94          Cum 9 times
Level   95             Cum 9 times  + 5 more where she pees while cumming then drinks it while cumming again
Level 96-98          Cum 9 times
Level 99                Cum 9 times + 9 more where she pees while cumming then drinks it while cumming again
Level 100              Cum 100 times (alternate. Even orgasms with butt plug in, odd ones with it out.)
Level 101              Cum 11 times with a buttplug in  + 1 more where she pees while cumming then drinks it                      
                              while cumming again
Level 102              Cum 21 times with a buttplug in  + 2 more where she pees while cumming then drinks it                    
                              while cumming again
Level 103              Cum 31 times with a buttplug in  + 3 more where she pees while cumming then drinks it                    
                              while cumming again
Level 104              Cum 41 times with a buttplug in  + 4 more where she pees while cumming then drinks it                    
                              while cumming again
Level 105              Masturbate for 5 hours, non-stop without cumming.  Then cum 105 times.

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