Hitachi Attachments

I did a previous post on one of the best all round orgasm tools ever: Hitachi Magic Wand (go here and get one!! Your welcome.)  This is the most versatile tool for extracting orgasms ever invented. As I was writing that post, I realized that the attachments was a whole other post -- from the variety of attachments to what you can do with them.

Attachments are important for 2 main reasons: 1) if you want to make her squirt -- the attachments really help! 2) If you have more than one girl and are worried about keeping clean...having attachments you can add or remove will give everyone their own toy.

It comes all sorts of different attachments that also work wonders. From a g-spot attachment, an anal probe to an masturbater just for men.
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The g-spot attachment is a squirt inducing masterpiece.

It just snaps on the end of the wand and you're good to go. You can now use it with a slightly softer and more comfortable head...and you can put it inside you to make you cum and squirt. And believe me, you will squirt! ha ha  <evil grins> Now you'll notice that this piece is a bit expensive...but it is worth it in my opinion.  It is made of high quality silicone so you can easily clean it and it will not harbor bacteria and other nasties.  And since you are going to use this a bunch --and you can't easily clean the head of the wand itself...go for this.   The material itself is expensive (silicon is just plain pricey, even if you make your own toys) but there is nothing better to make your toys out of -- just don't use a silicon based lube on it!

If you would prefer green silicon with some fun textured ridges...then THIS is the attachment for you.

Both of these attachments are silicon and both are well suited to both solo and partnered play. And both are nicely curved to help her squirt.

There is other attachments, like this blue one:

And another anal version that looks very similar but is straight instead of curved.  I've owned them both and both worked for awhile then torn getting it on and became useless. Also, they are made of vinyl and so they are porous and hold bacteria well-- even if you boil it.  So if you can, get the silicon ones -- unless you just want to try out the concept to see if you like it and it 'works' for you.

Now boys, don't worry, I also found this attachment just for boys! Of course, it's not really needed. This powerful vibrator just needs to get close to your cock for you to enjoy it...and I have to be honest, I've not used this attachment but it looks REALLY intense to me!  Like crazy so.  If I had a boy slave...I would get this in an instant.



The g-spot attachments are absolutely brilliant for placing an enormous amount of vibration just on her g-spot and forcing her to squirt. I honestly don't know why I haven't seen more of them in porn or on squirt specialized sites.  They know about the  Hitachi Magic Wand but haven't seemed to have discovered the attachments as of yet. Odd, as they are more more effective.

Another thing that's great about the attachments is...anal sex. You fuck her, she's got the attachment in her pussy and it's like you've turned her ass into vibrating heaven.

Also, if you stick the attachment up her ass...it can ALSO make her squirt!! And is really really intense in the good way for anal orgasms.

So, while the attachments are required to have a good time...they definitely add to the fun!

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Hitachi Magic Wand

One of the best all round useful tools is the Hitachi Magic Wand (go here and get one!! Your welcome.)  This is the most versatile tool for extracting orgasms ever invented.  The power and strength of it is unmatched. It comes with a variety of attachments. It can be used in all sorts of different situations and configurations. And it's sturdy, rugged and doesn't require batteries.  If you are to get just one sex toy...get the Hitachi Magic Wand.

This may come off as some sort of add for the Hitachi...but it's not. It's based on literally thousands of orgasms and years of experience...since the 90s  . I've even had 3 of them stolen by ex-girlfriends --that's how good it is.     Actually, 4 if you count Shane who got more than a little too attached to me and one of her crazy demands was: "I am keeping the Hitachi." In truth, it was a small price to pay for extracting myself from her all-kinds-of-crazy (which included wanting me to stay withing 6 feet of her during Pride weekend because otherwise I would end up flirting with other people -- which was technically correct but very specifically nuts!)  I joked recently with Ashlie that I had to take her Magic Wand away -- but I couldn't keep a straight face when I saw how panicked she looked.

So what makes it so good? Well it's POWERFUL! It's a goddamn orgasm on wheels! It is probably too much for the uninitiated. But I've used a bunch of vibes over the years and there's certain frequencies and intensities that I can just touch and know, "Yup. That'll work."  Keep in mind I have an forced orgasm fetish. It's my business to know what works. It's got 2 speeds-- low powerful and high powerful.  They are both orgasm inducing, just one is a lower frequency than the other.  But you need a wall plug to get this kind of power. But don't be fooled --other wand vibes I've used have all sucked in comparison to the original (There may be cheap knockoffs that are good...but I can only confirm that there are crappy ones.)

Oh, and in case you're wondering, it's one of the few vibes that works just as well for men as it does for women.  Hell, it even works through someone else. Try that with ANY battery operated vibe.  I will give a word of warning though...it's so powerful it can numb you fairly quickly -- and Ashlie cried once when I left her tied up with the wand on her clit. I was confused until she explained, "Master, I don't want to lose sensitivity there for you! :'("

It comes all sorts of different attachments that also work wonders. From a g-spot attachment, an anal probe to an masturbater just for men.

The g-spot attachment is a squirt inducing masterpiece.

Actually, the attachments is a whole other post. 

But the main reason to use an attachment is to force her to squirt.  The intense vibration deep on her g-spot will milk her like crazy and she won't have a choice but to squirt....even if she's never squirted before.

Of course, the hitachi is a wonderful tool for forced orgasms. You put an Hitachi Magic Wand  on her clit and she'll be begging to get permission to cum -- and she will come with or without you permission (if you're looking for a reason to punish her.)

That's an hitachi on the end of the pole!

It is great for using while fucking her: she can easily put it on her clit while you fuck her pussy...and she will cum hard on your cock --plus you will feel the vibration strongly too!! Hell, you can feel it clearly while fucking her ass.  (See the article on attachments for more ass-fucking benefits.)

The Magic Wand is also great for using on her when she is bound. As long as you can get it near her clit...you should be ok. Even if her clit has ropes protecting it...the Wand will vibe right through it.   Additionally, do to the shape, it's easy to tie it you things like a broom handle so that it's kept in place, on target the whole time.

Girls will probably get overstimulated by this powerful beast and can go numb so be sure to switch it off and on and also change the speed. And I do mean turning it off... she can come in 20seconds with this vibe. Maybe 30 seconds. So leaving it on for 10 minutes is just cruel.

Good LORD!

Another thing I love about these wands is they are super rugged! I had one for 5 years of regular use before it required an repair (the cord needed replacing as the wires got stretched.). Hell, the one Ashlie uses many times a day is from 2006 and is going strong.   They seem to last forever. Honestly, the biggest risk is the girl stealing it -- it's way more likely.

Also on the theme of lasting forever: they don't take any damn batteries either.  The number of times a toy has slowed due to batteries dying at a crucial moment...it's such a letdown.  But the wand...will outlast your wildest desires.  (It may heat up a bit and need a rest...but that tends to happen when everyone needs a rest.)

I am totally and fully serious about this: this is the best sex toy I've ever owned. The Hitachi Magic Wand  is amazingly versatile, rugged, powerful and the price is almost nothing if you count it by $/hours of use or $/Orgasm...you're still looking at under a penny.  If you are into squirting, milking the squirt out of your slave, forced orgasms or just quality sex toys...get one.

Safety

I have had 2 safety concerns with the Magic Wand. First, how to clean it...especially with multiple girls.  It's electrical so soaking it in water doesn't seem the best...so I've used alcohol and wiped it down thoroughly.  Still...adding a silicon attachment or a condom on the head is the way to go.

Proper squirt positioning

Speaking of water...this is a squirt-inducing-sexual-supernova-of-a-vibrator! I have never gotten so
much as a zap from this ....but goddamn, I wonder if I've been lucky.  This thing can make girls squirt like crazy so try to arrange it so she doesn't squirt all over the main handle. I don't know if they are made to be waterproof -- but they should be!

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Rope Cutters

A lot of BDSM advice, especially for rope and shibari recommends the use of EMS safety shears for emergency cutting of ropes.  These are designed for cutting quickly while keeping a flat, non-sharp part against the skin.  They are way better than regular scissors so don't confuse them with normal scissors (which are not very good at cutting rope...especially in a hurry.)

You can get them here for $12  http://www.amazon.com/dp/B002L9QML4

3rd Best Option

While these are good and pretty cheap, these are very far from the best.  The best would be either a Karambit emergency knife (http://www.karambit.com/safety_and_rescue_tool.htm) for about $50

2nd Best

Or a Benchmade Model 5 Emergency Tool http://www.benchmade.com/products/5  for $35.00

The Best - get it. 

The benchmade is my choice as the best for BDSM emergency cutting tool.  It's small, easy to use and cuts rope extremely effectively.  It also comes with a handy little case that can be attached to the strap  of a rope bag  -which is really perfect as there is no digging around the bottom of your bag for it -- and it is also clearly not a weapon so you can get it past the bouncer at BDSM events in clubs. 

This handy little tool will cut ropes far faster than EMS shears: especially if you are using thicker rope. 

One thing about this though...don't use it for anything but emergency cutting -- you want it as sharp as possible when seconds count. 

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Bargain Bondage -- Clover Clamps

When I found this  I was delighted!  You know those specialized bondage nipple clamps that cost a fortune? Well, they don't.

They are a item commonly used for sewing, known as a clover hem clip.

You can get 1 for $7.25 here
http://www.clover-usa.com/product/268068/22-22-01/Accessories/Hem_Clip_Bird

These hurt like a bitch -- but don't hurt too much or clamp too tightly...they do it just right. :)

You can leave them on for a bit less than 15 minutes and the beauty of these is...they hurt more and more over time. 

Actually, no, the beauty is, they hurt most when you take them off and the blood rushes back in.

I've seen pairs of them sell for $65.   

A great thing about them is...you attach rope to them them and they pull tighter. These are the best for nipple and genitals. I love'em!!  

As far as I can tell, clover is the only manufacturer of this style of clamp (patent?) And the rest repackage them.  Some come in flat black -- which is fairly cheap to do if you know how to powder coat.

If you don't like the string, replace it with a heavier chain.  

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BODY BAGS

A body bag is piece of bondage and S&M equipment that is used for enclosing a person's whole body.  it is usually used by people who have encasement and confinement fetish's and fantasies.   They are usually close if not skin tight, once a person is inside they are also built so that the person cannot escape.  Straps and lacing are used to secure the subs arms to their torso's.  Many different materials can be used to make a body bag including leather, latex, or even spandex (if it was made in the 80's). 

Uses: 

Body bags can be used for Surprise play where the sub is completely unaware of what the top is doing or where they are going to strike next.  Body Bags also work well with Temperature play using ice and heat as the sub has no idea which stimulant will be used next.  Long term bondage is also easy to do in  a body bag as most body bags do not stress the body during the bondage it's self.   Body bags can also be great for sensory deprivation, as they often completely obscure sight and muffle sound.   Common enhancements to Body bags are hoods, straps to tie the arms and legs together or to the torso in the arms case.

The best use of body bags is to transport a slave to new locations and they will have absolutely no idea where they are going and being confined -- and the sub will arrive tightly confined and in an aroused state -- completely curious as to where they are.   

Some body bags have a panel that can be secured with snaps or zippers, allowing for the face panel to be easily removed or added.  This is ideal as it allows for communication with the sub and feeding. 

Note: Depending on the material of the bag, it may be necessary to add a blindfold to ensure that no light can be seen by the sub.  It is easy to add a leather blindfolds by strapping it over the eyes and on top of the body bag. 

Effect: 

When I've questioned slaves about such confining experiences, I often hear that they love the feeling of being completely encased: it gives a huge sense of safety and calm as if they were being hugged all over.

Materials: 

Body bags can be made from a variety of materials and each comes with it's own set properties.  They can be made of latex or pvc but these do not breath and so should only be used for shorter time periods. That said, if the sub is confined and needs to pee...latex can take it no problem without being damaged. I recommend materials that breath such as gortex or leather. Leather, of course, can be extremely expensive as -- well, bodybags use a lot of leather.  

This body bag has handy face snaps to lock the face piece in place.

Safety: 

The biggest safety concern with both Body Bags is Asphyxiation.  Most commercial body bags are set up so the sub can breath through the bag -- although some are somewhat difficult to breath through.  The plastic, zip up body bags are for corprses and not intended for a live human to use. Do not assume that you can breath in them as they are a major suffocation hazard. It is both the Top's and the bottom's responsibility to constantly monitor the breathing and ability to breath of the victim.  

The skin also needs to breathe.  If materials are used that don't breathe, then your heart-rate and blood pressure may rise ... but these should not be too significant to cause adverse effects over limited play periods of an hour or so.  I don't know about longer times, however.  Still, every person is different so monitor your sub closely.   If
you want to keep your sub encased for long periods, use a natural fabric that breathes or gortex.

Finally, some people suffer from intense claustrophobia when fully encased which can result in extreme panic -- especially when they can't escape on their own.  This can result is a pronounced 'freak-out' -- the best thing to do is release them ASAP and start by removing the coverings around the face and head to  substantially relieve the sensation. 

Great Priced Body Bag:
http://www.gothic-lifestyle.de/de/BDSM-Artikel/Bodybags/BodyBag-mit-Haube.html

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BONDAGE TAPE

One of the first times my buddy Arthur walked into a fetish club, his eyes were immediately drawn to a young pretty girl wearing a gas mask and what appeared to be pink plastic wrap dancing seductively in a hanging cage.  He turned to me and asked what she was wearing.  I replied that the girl was wearing a dress made of bondage tape and wearing it very well.  The tape acted as sort of corset to further reduce the circumference of her already tiny waist...Later that girl would totally snub him but he's one to either succeed magnificently or fail spectacularly.

Definition:
Bondage tape is made from a PVC/Vinyl material...which is basically a type of plastic.  It is sold in rolls like duct tape (not Duck tape! tho that is now a brand too. Duct tape also has it's uses)  The standard roll is 66 feet long and 2 inches wide.  It also comes in thinner widths but I really don't recommend those as it easily folds on itself and ends up acting more like rope.  Bondage tape comes in a variety of colors, with black, red, pink and white being the most common colors.  I have also seen blue, clear, purple and yellow.  

Physical Attributes:
Bondage Tape has two main advantages.  The first Advantage is that it doesn’t stick to anything other than it’s self.  It doesn’t stick to hair or skin or leave a residue on your body or furniture.  The second advantage is that it is really easy to remove, a pair of blunt headed scissors can remove an entire tape dress or any bondage use in a few seconds with no pain or mess that you might get from say duct tape. (Fyi, if you want to use duct tape to stick to itself but not the skin, put baby oil on her skin first.)

Uses:
Bondage tape can be used for a wide variety of things.  It can be used to create pants, skirt, a shirt/top or a dress --with the easiest being skirts.  It can be used as a decoration in a bedroom or dungeon setting.  And of course it can be used as a restraining tool used in both sexual and predicament bondage.  

Bondage tape is particularly useful when used on skin or leave a messy residue. That means it doesn't hurt when you pull it off -- the exact opposite of duct tape (ouch!)  Tying hands or ankles is very fast and easy with type of tape.

It can also be used on hair as it  doesn’t stick to hair so it won't pull any hair out.  This means you can incorporate it into hair ties and I actually prefer it to rope for use on hair. 

But bondage tape comes into it's own when used as a gag. You probably have seen duct tape used in movies to shut people up. Well, the truth hurts: duct tape was not meant for lips and doesn't remove easily. It hurts like hell in a bad way. Use bondage tape instead -- and you can wrap it right around her head without fear of turning her hair into a gummy mess!

When using Bondage tape it is important to think out what you want to do before you unravel it.  Once it is off the roll if it touches it’s self it will bunch up and stick and become useless to you after that.   Also, while it can be reused...it kinda goes weird and is a lot of effort to keep it in usable condition.  Think of it as a one time use thing...and if you get a second use out of it, yay you!

When making a bondage tape dress it is important to remember that PVC and vinyl do not let heat breathe and if wrapped to tightly will cause you to over heat and sweat.  

Other common uses for bondage tape include, blindfolds, gags, and for mummification.  When being used a blindfold it is important not to set the tape too tight as this will cause pressure on the eyes.  When it is being used for mummification, it is important to remember that PVC doesn’t breathe and insulates heat so the top has to be conscious of the sub or bottoms state so that they do not over heat.

Safety:  
Bondage tape has only one main safety concern.  As with anything that is being used in any type of bondage, the biggest safety concern is

blood circulation.  Bondage tape is better than most as it doesn’t bind and comes with a nice 2 inch wide area that it can be applied too. That said, narrower 1 inch wide rolls can easily cut off circulation and do so better than rope ...another reason why I avoid the 1'' stuff.  As with rope bondage monitor her circulation.

Bondage tape can also be used to create effective corsets and can be quite limiting. These can compress internal organs if too extreme and my result in fainting and other issues associated with extreme corsets. 

However 2'' wide tape can also twists or becomes tangled it can tighten just like any other plastic material and cause disruption in blood flow.   A pair of blunt headed scissors should always be around for a quick and easy exit from the tape.  Also with any type of bondage make sure the person can never fall and avoid tying anything around their neck.

DIY and Purchase Options:
Bondage tape cannot be built by a regular layman and must either be purchased online or at a BDSM friendly Sex shop.  For purchasing online I recommend this one.

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