The Divine Nectar

I found out a about a film that I thought I'd share and ask...has anyone actually seen it? Is it as bad as the trailer makes it look?

The film is called The Divine Nectar: A Guide to Female Ejaculation.  This being a favorite topic of mine, I am extremely interested in it and rushed off to find the trailer. Well...this is what I saw:

Now maybe it's that I used to work in film (I've won awards for editing, writing and have even produced films that were show at major film festivals and even long listed for the Oscars) but I don't think that's it... I think this trailer hits on SOOOO MANY terrible visual buzzwords that my flake alert was buzzing off the hook.

Consider that this is one of my most favorite topics ever. I also practice and enjoy tantric sex --because damn, who doesn't enjoy cumming for 15+ minutes straight? And I am pretty familiar with shamanism too.   So wtf is it about this trailer that sets me off so much?

It looks sooo freakin' terrible that I want to watch it just for the train wreck factor.  Yet...maybe the editor for the trailer just sucked balls and it's descent?  (Generally, I would say that's not usually how projects work but then again, maybe they got a asshat of a trailer editor and the actual film is watchable.)

So, is this an informative film on female ejaculation and how to make girls squirt?  From the trailer, I would be shocked if it didn't focus on tantric practices...which could also be kinda cool. Does it focus on drinking it? What exactly does it cover? So I definitely wanna see it.

But my question is...will this be 2 hours I will never get back? Or will it provide insight or at least be a valuable learning video to which I can refer others.  I'll get back to you on that.

Here's another trailer for it...less censored and definitely not YouTube friendly because there's squirts and tits and stuff http://www.squirtshops.com/trailer_divine_nectar

And if you didn't know of the pirate bay, you can purchase a DVD (I know, you thought you go rent the vhs tape from the video rental store!) which is available here.

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Tantric Orgasm - a 3rd Chakra Orgasm

I do realize that these Tantric stories and posts are a completely different flavor to my usual BDSM posts but they are a significant (and awesome) part of my sexuality. If you don't understand them...that's fine. I'll post more kinky

I was with Sandra, my girlfriend a many months. Sandra was a very lovely Italian girl who was very tall and slim -- probably 5'11 and 120lbs. I don't remember how old I was at the time but she had just turned 19. She had a stunning face that was really quite beautiful although some failed to see it do to her very punk look with crazy colored hair, face piercings (and tongue, both nipples, belly, etc etc) -- she was the kind of girl on whom tattoos didn't look out of place.  The only issue I had with her is, she had the huge natural, perky D-cup boobs that had pierced nipples. These were completely wasted on me -- guy friends would congratulate me on her being stacked but really, I was lucky they were so perfectly shaped making up[ for their size. 

She was also pale as the snow on a winter field. I know it's popular to like tanned girls and skin -- but

Nowhere near enough Manic Panic

damn, pale white skin is so damn sexy.  Sandra was very pretty but also very intelligent too.  I kinda feel bad about dumping her -- but I was traveling to South America and didn't have the game nor wits to be honest and say, "There is no way I will be faithful to you but damnit girl, I love you. Let's talk about poly."     It would have been kinder to her as I broke the poor girl's heart.  Sandra, if you ever read this: I do love you and I broke up with you simply to because of circumstances -- I knew I couldn't be faithful despite the fact you were awesome.  I also think I misread the breakup -- you were stunned: not accepting.  I was a fool and bear all responsibility to the pain you suffered.  I honestly thought we were cool...till I got back.

Anyhow, one time, I had my sweet Sandra in bed and was fucking her tight, perfectly smooth waxed pussy. (Sandra never shaved...always going for the Brazillian wax.) As I fucked her, I felt her energy...her essence...and she was lovely and beautiful...a true Goddess and kinder than I deserved.   I was overcome with all sorts of squishy emotions for her and an orgasm began to rapidly build. 

I felt the orgasm building in the regular spot: the middle of my pelvis.  So, I did what I normally do and kept right on fucking! But this time, something unusual occurred.  Just at the moment of orgasm, when the 2nd chakra opens widely and lets everything flow...the energy shot back into my pelvis and then lurched up my core and into my solar plexus.  Then the orgasm burst forth from my solar plexus!

I started cumming really really hard. And anyone that knows me has little doubt of when I'm cumming.  Unfortunately, the same can be said for the neighbors.

But this orgasm had a completely different flavor and feel to it than a regular sexual orgasm. It

felt...powerful. And good. Awesome even. But it wasn't the same feel. It was unmistakably an orgasm...but it was like a raspberry orgasm when you normally cum chocolate. 

The other extremely noticeable difference was....it didn't stop. I mean...it just kept going and going.  I'm not saying it was a long orgasm like one that lasts a couple minutes.*   I mean, it was a completely self sustaining orgasm that powerfully went on and on like a massive pipe organ with a key taped down.

After a bit made note of the time.  Meanwhile, Sandra was looking at me a little perplexed. Normally this kind of a thing comes to an end. A wet and sticky end. This time...it was neither wet nor sticky...nor was it ending.

And it just kept on trucking.  Eventually, I was looking at the clock and it reading was a full 10 minutes after I initially took note of it. And I had an in-hindsight-totally-insane thought that, "nobody deserves to feel this good for this long" and I consciously forced the orgasm to shut down.  With some concentration, it subsided.  And Sandra said, "Wow, what the fuck was that!?"

So the whole point of this is, this is an example of one kind of Tantric.  Specifically, it's was a 3rd chakra orgasm. But many more types of orgasm are possible. You can cum through any of your 7 major chakras...as well as through minor ones too.  And...if sufficiently connected to your partner: you can cum through feeling her cum.   The orgasm I had with Sandra was not 'connected' with her...meaning I didn't attach to her 3rd chakra -- or I have no doubt she would have been cumming right along with me.  But the final note I'll add here is: my goal is not to cum like this-- my goal is to cum through all the chakras at the same time.

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Tantric Sex (my first Experience)

I have yet to even mention Tantric Sex and since it's a major component in my sex-life and existence as a spiritual-hedonist -- I want to describe what my first experience was like. Don't worry, I'll explain the nuts and bolts about it later...but for now, I want to give you an idea of how I experience it (as I've seen some real crap in Cosmo on it...and other BS about Sting and it seems like this weird realm of oddities in the mass media that written by people who have no idea what they are talking about.

I will say this though...this is not a typical first.  Nor is any strong religious belief required -- I remember hitting a girl who was a total atheist  with a mountain of 6th chakra energy.  She kept looking at me with her jaw agape saying, "This isn't possible. I can't be feeling this," over and over.  She eventually concluded that I must have had some sort of battery operated implant in my forehead. The point is, she had no supporting belief system and still felt it.

So here goes: my first Tantric experience --- and you may find it explains a bit about why it comes naturally to me.

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Not as pretty nor as angelic. Also, she tended to get
off on wearing outfits she'd wear at a party = no clear heels

I went to the wedding a couple that I was friends with when I saw this girl there.  I took one look at her and I was drawn to her like a magnet.  She was drop dead gorgeous and super hot... which may have had something to do with it.   (She later made a ridiculous amount of money as a feature dancer touring around as an Erotic Dancer... once saying to me, "I need a new car so I'm going to have to work every day this week."  But that is totally another story.)   Anyhow, as I have a habit of always talking to the prettiest girl at a party, I made a beeline to her.  Yet something was very special about her that I couldn't put my finger on so I introduced myself to Carli and we instantly hit it off.

Carli and I  were swept up with each other and I ended up spending most of the night talking to her (and trying to avoid other friends trying to high five me because, quite honestly, that's the opposite of helping!)    Now unfortunately, she was living in a completely different city so when that sleepless damn came, we made plans for her to come visit me.

When Carli did arrive, my housemate was sooooo not pleased with her showing up as she could see I was obviously smitten.  So, after some deft cock-blocking-avoidance, I managed to Carli up to my room to show her...I have no idea what excuse I invented ...as my real intention was to show her my bed as so that's all I can remember.  



I moved my face closer to Carli's so our noses were an inch or so apart and the tingling got much more intense.  As I got close to her, it was as if a Hitachi Magic Wand was buzzing on my forehead on high.  We instinctively lined our faces up and as we gazed into each other's eyes -SNAP! Our throats now plugged into each other.  It was as solid a connection as sticking a plug into a socket -- it just slid in and connected together.

Now we were attached at our foreheads and our throats.   She was still sitting on the bed and I was hovering over her, kinda stuck connected to her so I moved closer  -- and SNAP!  The next connection was our hearts. Carli and I slid back into a more horizontal position as I got on top of her -- and SNAP, SNAP! My stomach and pelvis plugged into her as well. 

I was now laying on top of her, gazing into her eyes while fully connected to her at the forehead, throat, heart, stomach and pelvis.  We were connected and had spontaneously plugged out 2nd to 6th chakras together.  I want to say again that this happened without any intention whatsoever and actually completely interrupted our conversation.  And now we were energetically intertwined. I had never before in my life experienced anything like this.  I could feel her heart beating and the blood flowing through her veins.  In truth, I could feel everything about her body more clearly than I can feel my body as type this.

So Carli was sitting on my bed and I was showing her 'something' when quite suddenly and unexpectedly, my forehead latched onto hers and snapped into place. I don't mean literally, but at the time, I had little experience with it and didn't really know what was going on.  But there was an immense amount of tingling coming from the middle of my forehead and this tingling lunged out and connected with the centre of Carli's forehead. I literally dropped the object I was showing her and stopped speaking mid-sentence as an energetic part of me 'clicked' into her.  It was like a solid and palpable click when we connected.

The feeling engulfing my body was pure ecstasy.  A comfortable, effortless bliss. In all honesty, it was a communion with my beloved -- a coming home -- and I was oddly coherent and not screaming and convulsing as often happens with me...this was just...peace.

I gazed lovingly into her eyes...and I do mean lovingly: my heart was so open towards her.  I gazed

I am you and you are me I see

into my love's eyes and appreciated the stunning beauty of her face as I felt large amounts of energy flow through us.  Time literally stood still. I have no idea how long we stayed like that with me on top of her: it could have been 30seconds or it could have been 3 hours. Time ceased to have meaning.   And as I appreciated the beauty of her face I felt as if I'd known her all my life and that I knew everything about her.

At some point I noticed something odd: Carli, the blonde-haired, blue-eyed beauty that I knew, now had long black hair and an Asian face. And odder still, I totally recognized that face. Her face was so familiar to me that I'd failed to noticed that she was Asian for a considerable time. But as I gazed at her, I knew that knew her...more strongly than the sense I initally had of knowing Carli when I met her at the wedding.  This Asian girl I knew.    As in, she was my sacred lover and we definitely had a strong past together.  The energy swirled around and flowed in and out of each other, merging so thoroughly that describing us as two beings seems wrong.

When we finally 'came out of it' and could speak again, Carli looked at me in wonder and said, " We've done that before!"  I could only agree -- despite the fact that this was the 2nd time we had met.  Of course, I saw Carli now as a blonde and everything had pretty much returned to normal -- though the only words spoken thus far were, "We've done that before," and my, "mmmmhmm."  Then Carli said something to me that served to confirm the experience, "I saw you but...you were Asian." My jaw dropped. Yes, what had happened was not all in my head: she had seen it too.

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